Alanis Morissette on Integral Naked - Healing the Ruptures
Alanis Morissette - From Jagged Little Pill to Flavors of Entanglement. Part 2. Healing the Ruptures. (click here for free sample)
One of the most dynamic and live-out-loud artists of our time shares how, over the course of a lifetime and 11 albums, she has come to a deeply integral—and deeply personal—understanding of why "touching on all the bases" is by far the most rewarding way to engage spirituality, relationships, and self-expression.
Alanis Morissette is a glorious example of what it means to talk about living an Integral Life in a way that is fun, accessible, and quite simply the most natural thing in the world. Why would you want to do anything less than touch in on all the bases of one’s life? Actually, it’s a little spooky how spot-on she is, apparently without even really trying. Alanis has this uncanny ability to talk about a certain dimension of her life, and how she has, over a lifetime, come to a place of inner peace and integration in that particular dimension. The uncanny part is that Ken will then mirror back to her the fact that she just walked us through all the important elements of that part of one’s life, exactly as the Integral Approach would do, but without any unfamiliar technical wording. It’s pretty amazing.
Just one example: Alanis and Ken start the dialogue by talking about what practices Alanis does for her spiritual dimension. She then lists everything from "being still" meditation, to prayer, to the exaltation of singing on stage, to walking in nature with her dogs. Ken then goes on to speak about what we call "The 1-2-3 of God," and how Spirit (or God, by whatever name) can be known and investigated in three fundamental dimensions: 1st-person (I), 2nd-person (You), and 3rd-person (It). Spirit in 3rd-person is the Great Perfection of the Kosmos, the unified Web of Life, and Nature with a capital "N." Spirit in 2nd-person is the great other, the great Thou or You that created the entire universe, a living intelligence infinitely greater than one’s separate self-sense. Spirit in 1st-person is the recognition that at the core of one’s personal experience of consciousness is the pure consciousness of Spirit itself, living as you and through you, in the Supreme Identity of I AMness. Alanis’s "being still" touches on Spirit in 1st-person, her prayer and singing touches on Spirit in 2nd-person, and walking in nature touches on Spirit in 3rd-person.
The next major topic of discussion has to do with the role of relationships in Alanis’s life, and how masculine and feminine types (whether in a man or woman, gay or straight) show up in relationship, and what their primary pathologies look like. To summarize, the masculine dimension in all of us is geared towards autonomy, and the feminine dimension in all of us is geared towards communion. Unhealthy masculine is not just autonomy, but dissociation from relationship. Unhealthy feminine is not just communion, but fusion in relationship. Both of these dimensions have something to learn from the other, and any Integral Approach would be sure to include both.
It’s hard to describe Alanis’s presence in this dialogue as anything other than "delicious." You get the sense that she doesn’t stop smiling for half an hour straight, and her laughs punctuate and liberate almost every other sentence. If for no other reason than to imbibe the joyous nectar of this brilliant soul, we invite you to listen in, and drink deeply of an Integral Life lived full-to-overflowing….
"I think ultimately I was born to help heal the rupture between self and self, self and other, and self and Spirit…."
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Previously on Integral Naked:
Sally Kempton- Seeing Beyond the Mythic God
Joe Perez: Soulfully Gay - Out of the Closet, Into an Integral Embrace
Dan Millman: The Peaceful Warrior's Way - The Highest Teaching
Alex Grey: Integral Art - Anchoring the Seed of Liberation
Alanis Morissette: From Jagged Little Pill to Flavors of Entanglement
Sharon Stone: Like a Fine Diamond....
Dan Millman: The Peaceful Warrior’s Way - “This Is How to Do It”
Alex Grey: Integral Art - When Psychedelics Reveal the Spirit Within
Deepak Chopra: Buddha - A Story of Enlightenment
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And first person plural?
Hyphens
Great question!
As I understand it, the We (1st-person plural) naturally arises as soon as I (1st-person) enter a relationship with God as the "Great Thou" (2nd-person). That is, in the I-Thou relationship, the we is the sacred hyphen in between. And if you zoom in even more closely, you might find that it is not a hyphen at all--but an infinite Möbius threading through the center of your soul, connecting your heart with every other being to ever dance upon the face of Eternity....
Or maybe it's just a hyphen. I've heard hyphens and hyperboles are distant cousins.
Alanis' Interview
Dear Ken Wilber, please let your guests speak once in a while...Alanis spoke 16% of the time, KW 84%. The urgency to say so much and to listen so litle during a conversation clearly gives us a peek into your mind:
(a) Your mind cannot stand to simply "know" and listen, because your egois so big that it needs to urgently tell people about your latest "discovery" or "theory"...
(b) You are not mindful enough to acknowledge the spirit escence of your guest, you are unable (because of your giant ego) to sit still and absorb the light of whomever is there as a guest.
"A lot to say !!! A lot to say!!! Please look at me, you see "I" KNOW, "I" can teach you....you need to listen to MEEEE...."I" am SMART"
:o)
We wish you profundity, peace & love
Hello "my best friend" - are
Hello "my best friend" - are you only basing this observation on the 8-minute free sample included in this post? I just want to confirm that this is just a small piece of the total interview, which from my perspective, is one of the most skillful interviews he's conducted in awhile. Not to mention that Alanis let us know afterward that she had an absolute blast.
That said, i agree that this sample was pretty Ken-heavy in terms of content--but i really wanted to include the full piece around the 1-2-3 of God, since it's such an important concept, and these samples are being fed out to the world for free.
But if you are concerned about Ken's ability to recognize the "spirit essence" of the guest, i recommend you listen to the entire conversation, because from my POV Alanis was given plenty of space to play, dance, and laugh--all of which she did with amazing grace and beauty!
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